The Welcoming Prayer is a way of consenting to God’s presence and action in our physical and emotional reactions to situations and stressors in daily life.
The purpose is to deepen our relationship with God and become free of the tyranny of repressed emotions that keep us overly attached to: safety/security, power/control, and esteem/affection. Note: Welcoming prayer is not accepting the cause of negative feelings, or wrong behavior. It’s about accepting reality as the denial and repression of afflicting emotions empowers our anxiety and tension. As Jesus says, “The truth will set you free” (John 8:32).
1. Focus and Feel the afflicting emotion.
Begin by taking 3-5 slow, deep breaths with your feet solidly on the ground.
Where is it registering in your body (Stomach in knots, tense shoulders, pain in joints, headache)?
Simply notice, identify, and feel. Don't judge, explain away, or fix.
2. Next say "Welcome ______________ ."
Welcome whatever the afflicting emotion is (such as anger, sadness, anxiety, frustration, etc.).
Welcome God's healing presence in which we are completely safe and loved.
God welcomes every corner of our hearts.
2. Let go by surrendering in prayer one of the examples below:
"I let go of my desire for security in ____________________, and embrace the moment as it is."
"I let go of my desire for esteem in _____________________, and embrace the moment as it is."
"I let go of my desire for control of _____________________, and embrace the moment as it is."
Remember God's presence with you and thank Him for healing (both seen and unseen).